when in robe...

Making sure your woman is comfortable can likely ensure your own comfort. Draping her sexy body in a silky floor length or ¾ length robe will definitely make her feel like a horny housewife.

But silk isn't the only available option; there are also velour, terrycloth, chenille, and thermal knit robes for your lovely lady. Picture wrapping it around her naked body only to get your hands inside and feel your way around. Sounds tasty, doesn't it?

And what should she be donning under that robe? Well, preferably nothing, but perhaps she would like to tease you just a little longer with a seductive T-Shirt and Thong duo.
know when to hold 'em
Asking her what she wants kind of defeats the purpose and the element of surprise. Try to be considerate; don't show up with a G-string that's two sizes too small and a bra made for Malibu Barbie -- she won't be a happy camper.

Pay attention to her body shape, check the size of her clothes and the styles that she likes. More than the lingerie, women love attentive men who appreciate the female form enough to know what would look good on it. Trust me, I know.

Until next time, watch her put it on, place her in front of the mirror, stand behind her, and slowly render her naked. And remember; shield your soldier before going in.

under where?

Then there's the underwear: Thong, G-string, Crotchless... ah the scrumptious list goes on and on. Remember that although we'd like to ensure that our women basically have a thong plastered to their body virtually every day, sometimes they're not very comfortable. So I suggest that you buy her a really nice bra with a variety of underwear (all the ones mentioned above).

Make sure that the underwear you purchase has cotton lining on the crotch (for hygienic purposes), unless of course, you plan to take it off the instant she puts it on.

If bras aren't your thing and you don't seem to have any luck removing them (I can do it with one hand -- or even my teeth, ha!), why don't you buy her a Camisole instead? These silky tank top-like pieces of clothing are easy to put on, nice to feel up, and even easier to take off.

There are some camisoles that do have bra-like clasps and although they're nice, you're better off buying them if you want to see her do a little dance for you before you slowly ease into your ram ification session.

You can even pamper her with a Sexy Lace Chemise... who am I kidding, I meant pamper yourself.

Next to the chemise, another sexy item that would definitely get your blood flowing to the soldier down below is a Bustier (pronounced boo-stee-yay). Yeah, the name might sound complicated, but believe me, this contraption pushes up the breasts, shrinks the waist, and provides that overall hourglass look every woman says she wants.

And of course, all this talk about lingerie would be useless if I failed to mention every man's fantastical dream of watching his woman remove her skirt only to find that her Stockings are attached to a kinky pair of Garter Belts lurking around underneath. It would be such a high to snap them with your fingers only to undo them with your teeth so that you can spank her adequately.

Oral exploration
Were you aware that the tongue is the body's strongest muscle? Well imagine what you could do with your tongue if you were giving her oral sex. Since you have more control with your tongue than with your penis, the sensations will drive her crazy.

Not only is your tongue naturally lubricated with saliva, you can maneuver it in ways that a penis never could. So why not use your tongue to have sex with her? Thrust your tongue in and out of her vagina, and take a break from time to time to explore her insides.

While you're roaming around down there, vary your cadence and the firmness of your tongue. Use your firm, flexed tongue for pinpoint accuracy, such as when you circle the clitoris, and use a limber, flat tongue to cover more ground.

Remember to continuously return to her clitoris since most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation -- especially when it comes to oral sex. However, don't apply too much pressure to her clitoris right away because it may irritate her and turn her off. Start out gently and increase pressure and speed according to her body language.

Above all, have fun down there when you're giving her oral sex, and keep her on her toes (or off as the case may be).

Hey guys, I know some of you love anal sex, but some girls dont like ... let's take a look of this, and learn something:

Don't do it if she's pregnant
Anal sex is best avoided during pregnancy. The first reason to skip anal while she's with child is that hemorrhoids are a common side effect of pregnancy and could make anal sex very painful. Secondly, you don't want to risk an infection in her vagina if you happen to transfer bacteria from her anus to her vagina. The most important reason to not suggest having anal sex while she's experiencing the joys of pregnancy is that it will not score you any daddy points. Tell her you think pregnant women are sexy and do it the old-fashioned way.
Do use a lot of lube
Remember, the anus does not produce its own lubrication like the vagina does, so using plenty of silicone or water based lubricant is very important to creating a safe and comfortable experience for both of you. Some companies make lubes that they claim are designed specifically for anal penetration, but any lube will do as long as you use plenty of it. Using a thicker lube -- usually silicone --will ensure that your slipperiness will not evaporate before the deed is done.
Don't use numbing creams
There are a variety of numbing creams and gels available to decrease the sensation in her anus, and she may be tempted to use them if she's afraid of the pain. Not being able to feel the pain could be dangerous, though, since pain is your body's way of telling you something's wrong -- she could get seriously hurt without realizing it. Instead of numbing her out, prepare her with plenty of anal foreplay using your fingers, tongue and toys before the main event. Most importantly, make sure she is relaxed and comfortable.
Do use protection
You may think that wearing a condom for anal sex isn't necessary since she can't get pregnant, but the spread of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) is actually more likely with anal penetration than with vaginal. The skin around the anal area is thinner and more susceptible to tiny cuts and tears, which allows STIs through. So unless you're 100% sure both of you are monogamous and disease-free, putting a condom on for anal sex is essential.
Do let her set the pace
Make sure you and your partner both enjoy the anal sex experience by letting her call the shots. How fast, how far and how hard are all things that should be up to her. You can't be as rough or enthusiastic as you might be with vaginal intercourse -- at least not right away. Let her get used to it by going slow, and if she says stop, stop immediately, or she may decide anal is no longer an option.
Don't penetrate elsewhere afterward
Don't put your penis in her butt and then immediately penetrate another part of her body (i.e., vagina, mouth). You may have picked up bacteria at the back door that could cause infections elsewhere. Plus, it's gross. Yes, porn girls love them some ATM, but unless your girl specifically asks for it, don't go there.
there are rules for a reason
It may seem like there are a whole lot of rules for something that should be fun, but they really are for your (and her) own good. Giving your girl a bad anal sex experience virtually obliterates your chances of ever doing it again. Make it good for both of you by following these important dos and don'ts of anal sex.

Clitoral Orgasm- This is the most common way a woman usually orgasms. It's how a woman typically masturbates and how she is used to being stimulated.nnThe clitoris is located outside the vagina and can be stimulated using your finger or tongue. You can also rub it during intercourse to enhance her stimulation. You can get great responses from women and give them powerful orgasms using clitoral stimulation.nnThis report does not cover clitoral orgasms but I wanted to mention it here to point out that there is a difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasms. Women are used to men giving them (or at least trying to give them) clitoral orgasms. There is a lot of information on the Internet about this basic type of orgasm. Let's move on so we can talk about what this report is really about, deep full body vaginal orgasms.nnnnVaginal Orgasm- This is an orgasm caused by stimulating the inside of the vagina. This is a much deeper, full body orgasm for a woman. Of the women who are able to achieve orgasm, only 30% have had a vaginal orgasm. All women are capable of achieving a vaginal orgasm, but some don't think they can and some don't even KNOW they can!nnThere are two "spots" in the vagina that when stimulated correctly will give a woman a powerful orgasm. These two spots are the "G Spot" and the "Deep Spot". As you guessed it from the title, we're going to cover the G Spot in this report. I have an entire ebook about Deep Spot Orgasms that I give away free to my clients who purchase "Factors of Attraction". You can read more about that at the end of this report.

I'm not ashamed of the things that I dream
I find myself flirting with the verge of obscene
Into the unknown, I will be bold
I'm going to places I can be out of control

And I don't want to explain tonight
All the things I've tried to hide
I shut myself out from the world so I
Can draw the blinds and I'll teach myself to fly

I love myself
It's not a sin
I can't control what's happenin'

'Cause I just discovered
Imagination's taking over
Another day without a lover
The more I come to understand
The touch of my hand

From the small of my back and the arch of my feet
Lately I've been noticin' the beautiful me
I'm all in my skin and I'm not gonna wait
I'm into myself in the most precious way

And I don't want to explain tonight
All the things I've tried to hide
I shut myself out from the world so I
Can draw the blinds and I'll teach myself to fly

'Cause I just discovered
Imagination's taking over
Another day without a lover
The more I come to understand
The touch of my hand

There's a world undefined
In my body and mind
I won't be left behind
I'm already here

'Cause I just discovered
Imagination's taking over
Another day without a lover
The more I come to understand
The touch of my hand

'Cause I just discovered
Imagination's taking over
Another day without a lover
The more I come to understand
The touch of my hand

I bring this article I found on internet (it's not mine) and I want to share with you, enjoy it: ...

Considered by many to be the ultimate male fantasy, threesomes have a long and storied history on the silver screen. From the steamy bedroom acrobatics of Denise Richards and Neve Campbell in Wild Things to the graphic sex displayed in Sunday, Bloody Sunday, many a savvy director has packed a theater with a well-executed menage a trois. Although the appeal of threesomes is obvious, executing one of these sexy trinities is easier said than done. Fortunately, we can help. Whether you're seeking advice on how to pick the right girl, how to broach the topic with your significant other or the positions you should try, AskMen.com has all of the information you need. These articles will help you double your fun and double your pleasure in ways that you never imagined were possible.
Threesomes on AM
As appealing as they may be, threesomes can be something of a Pandora's box that, once opened, can destroy your relationship faster than you can "switch positions." That's because a menage a trois isn't just about the sex. It's also about balancing the needs of all three participants in order to prevent petty emotions like jealousy and bitterness from interrupting your good, good gyrations. If you want to pull off a threesome successfully -- and save your relationship in the process -- it's essential to open the lines of communication and establish some basic ground rules. Otherwise, you might just find yourself participating in a onesome.

Threesomes Fact
If you've ever fantasized about a threesome, you're clearly not alone. News recently surveyed 1,500 Americans aged 18 and older and discovered that 14% of all respondents had participated in a threesome, while an additional 21% had fantasized about engaging in one.

Chances are good that you are not using one of the best tools in your sexual arsenal to its full potential. This secret weapon is your mouth. We're not just talking about oral sex here, although you should be giving her oral pleasure on a regular basis if you want to be a good lover, and we're going to go beyond kissing on the mouth in this article, which you should have mastered by now if you want to kiss her anywhere else.

Your mouth can be applied to various other parts of her body by kissing, licking, nibbling, biting, and sucking. Anywhere you touch her with your hands will most likely feel even better when stimulated by a warm, wet mouth. When it comes to kissing women, some of their favorite places are obvious, while others are frequently overlooked.
Ears
The ears are an often-neglected area of the body that can be the site of intense pleasure for her and using your mouth is the best way to stimulate them. Gentle nibbling on the earlobe is a reliable way to send shivers down her spine, but you should also try lightly brushing your lips against her ear, which will rouse the soft, fine hairs there creating waves of tingly pleasure.

I know this could be very usefull for some people, I hope you like it (it's not mine, I found it on internet)

She Gives You Her Undivided Attention


If she snags the seat facing the wall, odds are she's there to focus on you. So give her something to look at. "Women are far more skilled at interpreting body language". Display confidence and masculinity with open palms or steepled fingers, a "showcase of mastery and thoughtfulness," says Givens. If she chooses to face the room instead, watch her eyes: Is she easily distracted?

She Dries You Off


If you spill a drink, loudly drop a fork, or fumble the bread, watch her reaction. "If she turns away, embarrassed, or does nothing at all, she's suppressing her maternal instincts for a reason: She has no connection to you," says Givens. But if she lends a helping hand, there could be chemistry. Letting her help will strengthen feelings of attachment.

Offer her a bite of your entrée. If she takes the fork from you and brushes the food onto her plate, hit the brakes, Casanova. "When you offer her a bite, look her in the eyes and move the fork slowly toward her mouth" That way she can refuse gracefully if she's not ready to be fed. "In my research, I've never known a woman to sleep with a man who didn't first feed her". Bonus points: She offers a bite back.

She Uses Praise in the Conversation


Women yearn for kudos, but on a first date, keep compliments confined to her jewelry or clothes. "She spent plenty of time making those choices, so she'll appreciate your attention to detail". If she starts telling a story about the earrings or, even better, returns the compliment, it shows she values your opinion. A halfhearted "thank you" may be a brush-off.

She Grills You


Throw out a random question--about Maoist rebels or her high-school prom--and see where it leads. "If she finds a way to work it back to you, that's a great sign". Women approach dates as fact-finding missions, so thoughtfully answer any personal questions beyond the obligatory, and reciprocate with inquiries of your own.

She Gushes Over the Chocolate Volcano


Does she snack stoically on her dessert, or does she close her eyes and moan softly, savoring the velvety texture? "This means she appreciates the sensual, hedonistic side of life". "She's just had an orgasm on her tongue"

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Beware of addiction. It is easy to get too involved in online dating relationships; for some it can lead to an addiction. Some find themselves enjoying the flirtatious advances of the opposite sex, both in chat rooms and with on-line dating services. People get sucked into on-line relationships and become addicted to the world of on-line dating and chat rooms. For some it becomes an obsession. The classic story is a person who finds himself or herself divorced after 20+ years, followed by a string of unhappy relationships, and eventually finds solace in a chat room.
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Know that online communities can be full of deceit and lies due to the anonymity they provide. You can create a persona quite different from yourself. You can act out a part, instead of being a real person. There are characters online ready to prey on the unwary and naive.
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Realize that online dating is every bit real. There is addiction, obsessiveness, vindictiveness, desperation, impulsiveness, and even downright guilt. Love is a powerful emotion. Do not follow your heart over your head. Don\'t journey outside your comfort zone and be overtaken by a seductive search for true companionship.
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Be smart. Tell yourself, \"I\'ll keep the relationship at the e-mail level before deciding to talk on the phone!\" Yes, take baby steps to discover if you have a great deal in common. You can enjoy chat rooms, but be aware where it can lead you if you are not savvy.
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Do your research. Why did you get into online dating--a success story from a friend, or just no luck anywhere else? Lots of books have been written on this subject. You must read a few if you are thinking of entering this medium.
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For parents, know that there are millions of predators out there, so put the right safeguards in effect to protect your family.
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Be realistic. It\'s easy to build relationships via the internet. The attraction to online dating is how easy it is to fill out a profile and suddenly have a list of \"Top 10\" matches. If you\'re too needy, you think how close you are to long walks on the beach and even experiencing a falling star together! Realize that for every one of the stories that you hear about meeting and dating the perfect man, there are stories of relationships that end traumatically when a date\'s wife answers the phone. Don\'t let an online dating experience go from the chat room to the psychiatrist\'s couch; temper your expectations and be prepared.
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Take it slow. Communication has gotten much faster with mobile phones, sms, internet relay Chat, instant messaging, ICQ. You can be surfing the Web and up pops a message from a potential lover. The nice thing about Internet dating is that you can do it at your own pace without taking time away from work. But don\'t let that rush you into anything. There are unfortunately a lot of opportunities for the unsavory members of our society.

Tips
If you plan to meet the person in real life, don\'t give an old or outdated picture. Be truthful and give a recent picture, even if it\'s not your best.
Before you give your number out, make sure that you are sure about everything.
Make sure you tell your family.
Go on virtual dates.

Warnings

Many more millions are entering online dating unarmed and this is why the reported number of dangers is increasing. Many stories of unsavory online dating liaisons are taking place. Imagine the horrible dates and unpleasant experiences that are not being reported, because people are either too embarrassed or afraid to share their online dating experiences with anyone.
When you meet him/her in person, never go alone! Always take someone with you.
Never tell them your address. They could turn out to be not what you were looking for, and they could stalk you or worse.
Never give any money to the person.
Never let them help you move when you meet for the first time